Is It OKAY, Yes or No?

Okay so I was talking to a friend and he thinks its okay to refer to hs girlfriend as his "B***h!!! Okay so is this really acceptable?? As a women have we really lost this much respect for ourselves that we allow our men to refer to us as an animal? Most women will compromise what they believe just to make that man happy and him not leave HOWEVER COMMA, its the lack there of , of Self-Esteem and Self-Respect. To refer to your girl, the women you lay with as a female dog tells alot about your character.... SO i wanna know what the world thinks of this!!! IS this Okay, Yes or No? If Yes Why If No Why? Im #Flummoxed